BYE BYE, BACKTALK —

Finally, a proven way to end disrespect and constant arguments.

Meet Bye Bye Backtalk! Your guide to 🛑 stopping the cycle of arguing, fighting for the last word, and "negotiations" that make your blood boil.

Get instant access to the mindsets and communication strategies that make backtalk pointless.

Ready to stop feeling like a hostage negotiator to get basic things done? Your family deserves better than constant bickering and sass.

🤝 Let's make family life fun again.

💬 CALM CONVERSATIONS

🔄 RESPECTFUL REACTIONS

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 HARMONY AT HOME

💬 CALM CONVERSATIONS

🔄 RESPECTFUL REACTIONS

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 HARMONY AT HOME

There you were, thinking you'd ask your kids to do basic things and they'd just do them. Who knew you'd end up trying to convince your kids YOU were the adult in the house?

👀The disrespect feels personal —

And you're triggered to hades.

Backtalk is equal parts discouraging and rage-y. You are doing what it seems like every other parent does... and yet your kids argue back.

They may even get rude, snarky, and say things like "I hate you" or "you're mean". Or worse.

What's one way to teach your kids to share their thoughts without being rude and impolite?

🗣️ A New Way To Communicate

The ole sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me saying has a grain of truth 👉 but the conflict in your home does affect you. A lot.

You, and up-to-date research agrees...

Spoiler of the century: living in a home with a lot of conflict is stressful.

  • Negativity and fighting in a home creates a tense environmment

  • When there is resistance to even basic things moms get enraged

  • The more backtalk and arguing, the less connected mom and child feels

  • Arguments and backtalk lead to a "parent against child" dynamic

  • Children get more and more defensive over time in this dynamic, not less

STONE COLD TRUTH: You want a

respectful family culture

THE good news? nowhere to go but up.

📣 Your kids can learn to speak politely ...

when you learn how to help kids feel heard and hold your boundaries... things start to change.

  • You'll learn how to talk with your kids in a way that doesn't trigger their self-defense or "fight posture"

  • Your kids will get more regulated over time as they feel understood (even when you are holding a boundary they don't like)

  • You can stop walking on eggshells, anticipating a fight.

  • Overall communication will feel easier, calmer, less tense and SOS 🚨

  • And the best part? You'll finally enjoy conversations that bring you closer instead of pushing you apart.

Hey! I'm Rachel Norman

family life coach, chore chart chief, & mom of 5

Language of Listening® parent coach with 12+ years of experience helping moms create peaceful relationships with their children.

I'm a family life coach specializing in family practices and making life work.

Also, see: certified sleep consultant author of If Mama Ain't Happy and Precious In His Sight, oh... and mother of 5 kids in 5 years (no multiples!).

I help mothers take back control (the good kind) of their homes, become the best version of themselves (less yelling, less anxiety, less guilt)

so they can enjoy the fantastic children God has blessed them with.

Millions of readers / followers, tens of thousands of customers, hundreds of mamas personally coached in my programs, and 12+ years later...

I understand what makes family life wilt. 👉 And what makes it work.

💣 Truth: there's nothing permanently wrong with your family, you're just swirling around in some life traps that keep the chaos kicked up. Ready to right the ship?

~ no more fightin' over silly stuff ~

BUILD BRIDGES, DON'T BURN THEM DOWN

📣 Bye Bye, Backtalk guide will help you improve your family's communication (aka phase out the dyfunctional verbal spats)

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LEARN HOW TO TALK / LISTEN

Say whaaatttt??? I can hear you say,

"But it's my child who ain't listening!"

I believe you! I'll teach you a different way to communicate that melts defensiveness.

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MAKE BACK TALK UNNECESSARY

Kids talk back and act disrespectful as a form of escalation. Meaning, they think it's what they have to do to get heard or understood. Um, no. Let's fix that.

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LEARN BOUNDARY STATEMENTS

Avoid ending up in stand-offs

and situations that trigger a fight. Understand how how to be a benevolent leader - with strong boundaries - that your child learns to trust, not rail against.

LEARN HOW TO TALK / LISTEN

Say whaaatttt??? I can hear you say, "But it's my child who ain't listening!" I believe you! I'll teach you a different way to communicate that melts defensiveness.

MAKE BACK TALK UNNECESSARY

Kids talk back and act disrespectful as a form of escalation. Meaning, they think it's what they have to do to get heard or understood. Um, no. Let's fix that.

LEARN BOUNDARY STATEMENTS

Avoid ending up in stand-offs and situations that trigger a fight. Understand how how to be a benevolent leader - with strong boundaries - that your child learns to trust, not rail against.

bye bye, backtalk

You know you shouldn't have to defend every word or instruction to the kids. You want mutual respect. It's time to make it happen.

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